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for Family and Friends
Bipolar
Illness Is Often Unrecognized
An early sign of bipolar illness may be hypomania-- with high energy,
moodiness, and impulsive or reckless behavior. Hypomania may feel good
to the person who experiences
it, so that he or she will deny that anything is wrong. In early
stages, symptoms may appear as other problems: alcohol or drug abuse,
or poor performance at work or school. Left untreated, bipolar
disorder tends to worsen so that the person experiences more severe
episodes of mania or depression.
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Symptoms of bipolar disorder may prevent those affected from
recognizing their illness. Family, friends, and physicians can provide
encouragement and referrals for treatment. To ensure propertreatment
and personal safety, commitment to a hospital may be necessary for a
person in a severe episode.
Suicidal thoughts, remarks, or behaviors should always be given
immediate attention by a qualified professional. It is not true that if
a person talks about suicide, they will not kill themselves.
With appropriate treatment, it is possible to overcome suicidal
tendencies.
Bipolar disorder is a lifetime illness- to keep moods stable, ongoing
treatment is needed, even when the person is feeling better.
It may take time to discover the best treatment regimen for an
individual-- it is important for both patient and family to work with
the doctor to develop the treatment plan.
In addition to treatment, mutual support groups can benefit patients
and their families. National Depressive and Manic Depressive
Association (NDMDA) and National Alliance for the Mentally Ill
(NAMI) sponsor such groups.
Suicide
The possibility of suicide is the most serious complication of
depressive illnesses. Feelings of worthlessness and guilt, combined
with a special kind of psychic pain,may overwhelm the individual so
that he or she feels unable to go on or unfit to live. Sometimes these
feelings remain just thoughts, and at other times they lead to suicidal
attempts.
Not all those suffering from depressive illnesses attempt suicide, nor
are all those who attempt suicide suffering from a depressive illness.
It is estimated that 15 percent of untreated or
inadequately treated depressives may eventually commit suicide and,
among suicide victims, more than half are suffering from a depressive
illness. The person hospitalized for depression at some time
in his or her life is about 30 times more likely to commit suicide than
is the nondepressed person, with the greatest risk during or
immediately following hospitalization. A family history of suicide
is an additional risk factor.
The possibility of suicide increases with advancing age. In recent
years, however, there have been alarming increases in suicide among
young adults. Approximately twice as many women attempt
suicide; however, men are more likely than women to actually kill
themselves.
from:
National Alliance for the Mentally Ill (NAMI)
What can families
and friends do to help?
If you are a family member or friend of someone with bipolar disorder,
become informed about the patient's illness, its causes, and its
treatments. Talk to the patient's
doctor if possible. Learn the particular warning signs for how that
person acts when he or she is getting manic or depressed. Try to plan,
while the person is well, for how you should respond when
you see these symptoms. You will be thanked later!
Encourage the patient to stick with the treatment, see the doctor, and
avoid alcohol and drugs. If the patient has been on a certain treatment
for an extended period of time with little improvement
in symptoms or has troubling side effects, encourage the person to ask
the doctor about other treatments or getting a second opinion. Offer to
come to the doctor with the person to share your
observations.
If your loved one becomes ill with a mood episode and suddenly views
your concern as interference, remember that this is not a rejection of
you-it is the illness talking.
Learn the warning signs of suicide. Take any threats the person makes
very seriously. If the person is "winding up" his or her affairs,
talking about suicide, frequently discussing methods of
follow-through, or exhibiting increased feelings of despair, step in
and seek help from the patient's doctor or other family members or
friends. Confidentiality is important but does not stack up
against the risk of suicide. Call 911 or a hospital emergency room if
the situation becomes desperate. Encourage the person to realize that
suicidal thinking is a symptom of the illness. Always
stress that the person's life is important to you and to others and
that his or her suicide would be a tremendous burden and not a relief.
With someone prone to manic episodes, take advantage of periods of
stable mood to arrange "advance directives"-plans and agreements you
make with the person when he or she is stable to try to avoid
problems during future episodes of illness. You should discuss and set
rules that may involve safeguards such as withholding credit cards,
banking privileges, and car keys. Just like suicidal
depression, uncontrollable manic episodes can be dangerous to the
patient. Hospitalization can be life-saving in both cases.
If you are helping care for someone at home, try, if possible, to take
turns "checking in" on a patient's needs so that the patient doesn't
overburden one family member or friend.
When patients are recovering from an episode, let them approach life at
their own pace, and avoid the extremes of expecting too much or too
little. Don't push too hard. Remember that stabilizing
mood is the most important first step towards a full return to
function. On the other hand, don't be overprotective. Try to do things
with them, rather than for them, so that they are able to regain
their sense of self-confidence.
Treat people normally once they have recovered, but be alert for
telltale symptoms. If there is a recurrence of the illness, you may
notice it before the person does. In a caring manner, indicate
the early symptoms and suggest a discussion with the doctor.
Both you and the patient need to learn to tell the difference between a
good day and hypomania, and between a bad day and depression. Patients
taking medication for bipolar disorder, just like
everyone else, do have good days and bad days that are not part of
their illness.
Take advantage of the help available from support groups.
from: Frances A, Docherty JP, Kahn DA, eds. The
Expert Consensus Guideline Series: Treatment of Biolar Disorder. J Clin
Psychiatry 1996;57 (suppl 12A).
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